Thanks InnerStrength, makes sense but i am not sure if its worth leaving it for a little while first, from discussions we had earlier this week i think she is going to make a decision sooner rather than later, it would be a shame to rock the boat right now and have it blow up in my face but at the same time i dont want to give the impression of being weak and not having my own boundaries! Why cant life be simple lol
Me: 39 W: 33 Son:7 Daughter:4 Its Over: March 7th 2013 Moved back home Mid June, trying to make it work