Stuck between a rock and a hard place!

[dorightman]

I was bombarded by her aggressive therapist. He only wanted to talk about the D. He wanted to know why I wasn't giving W a D? He told me that she wanted to D me no matter how much work I've done on myself. He told me W wanted to divorce me even if I was the best man in the world! He said that love is conditional! He said that w wanted intimacy, just not with me.

I sat through this, argued with him when I disagreed and my w sat there and cried.

Before this I saw my therapist and he told me that many couples survive hardships including adultery and see it as a great teaching to take them both to a great place. Another obstacle in the face of life to help us grow.
He talked about Intimacy and how he thought all marital problems where about intimacy. He said all the details, the content where irrelevant.

The differences between my therapist and hers is incredible! Mine is dwelling on love and spirituality, hers is cold hard facts, no spirituality at all.

Anyways, at this point I'am feeling like dropping the rope for real, giving her what she wants, a D.

If she ever has a change of heart, I will tell her my door and my heart remain open if she is willing to pick it up together.