There are some who have Xs who have not contacted them, years and years after BD / D. And some Xs... after years and years... DO make contact again...

I don't think that people who have non-returning Xs have it any "better" to be in contact. There's certainly pros and cons to both.

The only thing you can expect is that she will keep doing what she is doing...

until... she does something different... which could be never...

IF she does... your changes will shine through, now doubt. cool

Keep working on you!