After H put up pics of vacation (only his and S).. i ruminated whether to put them up..
I resisted the idea.. Things were chugging along slowly i decided to put them up .. 2 of them were family pics..and then explosion..
H texts me furiously from work.. "why did you do that ..take them down.. i now refuse to do anything with you..infact cancelling plans made with friends right now..i clicked so that s does not wonder...u asked for them.. " on and on..
I just replied since i do not comment on what he puts up to please let me be...
he says u are free to put up urs and s but to please delete the family pic as there is no need to show the world the fake picture..
i did no such thing.. though i agree its fake this is my world although right now it is how i hope it would be..he stayed furious for about a day and a half...
the same friends whom we had plans with informed him they are exiting a group chat which included h and me because h was talking like a dumb teenager pulling them up for something stupid and that they did not enjoy it and that they need not tolerate it.. this stunned H .. he called them up , apologized and they came back.. i was so happy atleast someone could get an apology from H.. he has started smoking..having severe job stress.. does not share any of it with me...
Also OW comments on a family pic and a pic of me alone (psycho)... i know i know to lock her but i feel that would telling them how important her comments are to me and i want to do just otherwise..
He continues to moon around.. listening to music of love and longing.. do wish he gets a transfer to OW city and figure out whether he truly has a life with her or not..
till then we all are stuck
hoper me-40,H41 M-15 S-6 Looks like MLC,living together
