BRNR, yes, there is a story of the poster imLIN. Here the link to the tread.
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1229971&page=2

Her post is on page 2. Here is an excerpt from it: “Over the next two years things seemed hopeless...I messed up a lot...found this place but still messed up here and there...H cut off contact with his kids and me...it was pretty bad...he would go 6 months with out a word...we didn't know if he was dead or alive most of the time...it was hell on all of us”.

Hope this helps. Hang in there.


M:50
H:52
S28 (my S from previous marriage)
M:17 + 3
BD: 06/12
S: 06/12 - H works in another state