PON, try to understand that the frustration your feel is YOUR frustration. Own that.
I can not speak for gabbysmom, although my understanding of what she is saying is, if YOU are DONE with the limbo, then OWN THAT CHOICE and file. All past efforts have failed for you to comm with your W and it appears the lack of comm is becoming a deal breaker for you. If it is, then you are done. LRT and FILE.
I can not speak for Bond, although my understand of what he is saying is, deal with the fact that you can not make your W comm with you. If lack of comm is a NOT a deal breaker for you, then stop trying to comm until she comes out and initiates.
