Well as of today my dinner (date) is still on for Friday with my W. I know it's a good thing but I have that overwhelming feeling that she is only doing it because she truly believes we can be friends for the rest of our lives. But I'm thinking I can't look too much into it. Take it for what it is, a chance to be around her and be happy.
A mutual friend of ours had dinner with her the other night and she told me that she said she's not even thinking about actual divorce right now. Also that her friend had to talk her off a ledge the other night cause she was so sad about how sad her life is. I'd think that's a good thing for me?? Not sure.
But for right now ill stick to hoping the dinner stays on. I'm a little nervous. Besides talking about our kids and I can ask how her salon is going I'm kinda at a loss for what to talk about. I know to keep it light and not about our relationship. Any thoughts here?


M:33
W:32
Married:8
Together:10
S:5,4 and 8 months
BD: 4/1/13
W move out day: 5/4/13
ILYBNINWY,WAS. No talk of wanting to save relationship