How to proceed with angry, almost-walkaway H?

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Wow, that was quick, Mr Bond. Gosh, I had no idea that I wasn't supposed to say "support"... that seemed to be what everyone else (on the forum) said to their S. I thought I was "opening the cage". Oh no... And I said it 3 or 4 times!!! Argh...

So from now on, I'll say: I understand; I'm sorry you feel that way; It's not what I prefer but I respect your needs. Those are ok, right?

>> Although I was very tempted to confront him with all the evidence I have, I didn't push it and walked away. "

You should have told him "yes I do" and then walk away.

Oh...I thought I wasn't supposed to confront him about OW? I'm worried that I'll push him further away if I guilt him about his lies.

I do want to tell him he never intended to give our M a chance, that he only pretended to try while carrying on behind my back with her. It's just that the mood will turn very sour after that. Right now, we're still kind of friendly. I thought DB advice is to keep being the WAS's "friend" and PMA/GAL while they're crazy?

I can still tell him tomorrow. But is there any point in telling him I know about his communication with OW?
- So that I can guilt him into really trying for our M? --> Slim chance. He doesn't want to.
- So that he can feel ashamed? --> Will it help my case? I don't know...
- So that he'll know that I spied on him? --> Makes me more of the "enemy" doesn't it...?

So at this stage, should I confront or not? Maybe I should just give him to her now and pray that he'll come back?

Do I switch to the LRT or continue to DB while he's here?