"It's easy to find the surface level relationship, the infatuation, the physical. It's rare to find that soul to soul connection. They could leave and never find it again. Maybe that's what keeps them anchored, even if just slightly. Cause even in their fantasy world, there is that one thing "

oh Raine, but that's what my H says we LACK. He says that OW#1 (EA only) was his soul mate, and made him realize that he has never loved me frown So now he's hooked up with OW#2, not a soul mate, but "they're in love with each other." I'm hoping that's the fantasy. 

I'm always so happy to read your posts, T^ you're making real progress! You give me hope, thanks for updating us! Does your son have to return to the fire?


Linda

Me 65, Ex 64
M 38 y
2 adult S, 4 G-Kids
MLC 11/07
BD 12/09
D 3/14
Dating nice guy 7/14
Engaged to nice guy 12/17