things went south

[BC39]

Bond "Have you ever tried just making out without sex? Many times women just need to be held."

There's been lots of cuddling and holding and kisses, but the making out has been an issue for a while.

Pre BD a year ago she started complaining about how I kissed. I wasn't doing right etc..

After BD when we were going to MC it came up that we should be doing 10 second kisses, but we didn't do it.

It came up in conversation a few months back when I jokingly made a comment about how were supposed to be doing 10 sec kisses. I also told her I didn't really like the way she kissed either, so we should try to find a way to meet in the middle.

Truth is, and I'm embarrassed to say, but I don't think we had a 10 sec kiss since before BD a year ago. Not many open mouth kisses at all actually. Mostly just 2-4 sec closed mouth.

She used to say how much she enjoyed kissing as well...

Just typing all this makes me feel silly that I haven't paid more attention to it. I really want to, but I know she isn't 100% into it right now. And I'd be lying if I said I wasn't insecure about doing it to her liking.

I'm all ears on thoughts on this..

Thanks