My W just took LL quiz a couple weeks ago. When she got it she asked "do I answer based on my ideals or how I feel now". I told her to base it on her ideals.
She's Words of Affirmation and Quality Time. I've been working of the WoA since BD a year ago. I sucked at it before. Quality Time I'm working on, as W stated recently there's times when she gets anxious when were out alone (this comment confused me a little as we get along great when alone, but its obviously more than that).
You are 100% correct about the emotional connection. That is our biggest problem. It's what I'm striving to get back. There's times when I feel like its happening and times when I feel like I need someone to tell me word for word what to say to her to get it back.
You make some very great points above ^^^ thanks! I'm just heading our the door but I'll touch on the rest of them later...
M-38 W-32 D7, S4 M-10 BD-May '12 S for 1 month-June '12 Reconcile, Piecing
