"But essentially I've tried this already . Speaking with her"
You continue to do it with an "expectation". You talk to her, that's your choice. She doesn't want to answer, it's hers. Remember, my W never talked for years until she started opening up. Now we joke around like before. You have to get over that hurdle.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.