How to proceed with angry, almost-walkaway H?

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3. I'm financially dependant on him b/c I'm not working right now -- am looking for work. Most of my money (and his) is in our joint account. My worry is that he'll stop supporting me and/or transfer the bulk to his own a/c. I'm tempted to make the first move and transfer half of the joint a/c to my own a/c. But in doing so I may antagonise him b/c he'll think I don't trust him. Any advice??? Right now, I don't know if I can trust him.