Are you ready to fight for your wife and marriage?
Absolutely, but I struggle with knowing what my plan of action should be. I also think I'm not identifying whats working. What I think constitutes as "working" is when we are getting along well, but to my knowledge, she still seems set on divorce. I'm told she will speak in absolute negatives, so what do I believe? I'm trying to be patient, so if we are getting along well, do I stay the course and continue to be patient? Or do I switch gears?
I'm working on being me. Yes, I still catch myself wondering what she will think of something. I'm getting better. The real me wants to help her with difficult things, so its hard not to. The more I read on this forum, the more I wonder if I shouldn't be there for her.
M:34 W:36 M:10 T:15 D:9 S:5 BD:12/12 Worked on the M for 6 mo before W saying it was over 5/13.
