My sitch was slow moving being that my H and I lived in different states. Our communication was limited to emails about work and a few text messages a week about the kids. I've been GAL and detaching.
My H is in town now and has observed me GAL. Last night, he invited himself over to have some drinks. We caught up, laughed and talked about our upcoming trip. Towards the end of our time, he made some comments about how he feels like he is getting to know a whole new person. He said he observed that I've been going out a lot and the kids are often being watched by someone. He said that he doesn't remember me being so out-going and adventurous (180). I simply responded and told him that he doesn't remember me being fun. I realize now that I should have simply validated him and thanked him for the compliment.
Today he texted with the following: Can I ask you a simple honest question? I noticed you don't have your ring on. Have you moved on? I ask you over text because I have a feeling I can't have these kind of conversations with you in person. You either are not comfortable enough, or you just want me to know you are all good. Either way all I want to give you or anyone else is honesty. I've always been honest with you whether I was comfortable or happy or not with my decision.
I don't know how to respond. Advice please.
Me 33 / H 30 T 10 / M 9 S 3 / D Infant Bomb 11.22.12 / Moved 11.29.12
