Detaching has certainly been tough for me. It the all too familiar fear for LBSs. Letting go and then thinking you have open the door to be replaced. Even though my W can, and maybe has, opened that door herself. I wish I knew the right things to be there on, and ones to let her figure out on her own.
This particular piece has been on my mind a lot the last couple days. She has "needed" my help on a few things. Getting the vehicle she drives (its in my name and was the "family vehicle) fixed since it got hit/damaged. Finishing her company website that I had started. Things like those are tough for me. I want to help and it feels good to help, but I don't know if its hurting or helping my DB efforts.
Vets? Any advice?
M:34 W:36 M:10 T:15 D:9 S:5 BD:12/12 Worked on the M for 6 mo before W saying it was over 5/13.
