PON, That's why you have to shut down the conversation and walk away. She knows exactly which buttons to push. If you tell her that you are sorry she feels that way and leave it be, it will tend to confuse her because you aren't coming back at her with comments.
It's difficult to swallow, but you can do this.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
