"You don't even realize you said it, that is the bad part H, I had to tell you what you said was wrong or hurt my feelings or made me feel like same old behavior"
"you're controlling"
"you're trying to manipulate me" <<< this is always said after I try to express my feelings even if I am not trying to manipulate her or try to change the way she feels. I might just trying to express my view of the sitch (comment sitch for example)
"I will never trust you again" referring to me breaking into email 2 plus years ago
"I feel like youre a third kid, need to pick up after you and take care of you" No clue where this comes from. I do laundry, watch kids, make beds, clean, cook on grill, after traveling 90 miles a day to provide for family