I know it can be tough to not defend yourself, especially if there is spew.

And that is what they do... They will mix together nit picking nonsense (my tacos were "bland" last week lol!) with some things that have bits of truth. Sift through what she's telling you.

If she escalates, I say walk away. My H started to get belligerent during a big talk we had in January. I told him, "I'm not going to talk to you when you're like this. We'll talk another time." And turned around and went upstairs. He tried to bait me back by yelling "Oh, I guess you're such a bigger person." I just kept on walking.


What do you think, T?

Bomb January 2012 - doesn't feel the same about me

~ "There is nothing love cannot face; there is no limit to its faith, hope, and endurance."