That men and women can go to therapy for a condition (sexual/psychological) and their problems get fixed. Heck we see it on here all the time.
"And what do you mean by inner and outer life?"
A woman who has a rich inner life is one who knows who she is and explores her full potential as a human being - physically, mentally and sexually. The outer life refers to how it's presented outwards - great mother, terrific wife, professional at job or whatever.
A woman who has a strong inner and outer self has strong self-esteem and no hang-ups. It is attainable, but many women (and men) don't reach it because of their own hang ups.
Sounds good. She could have a rich "inner" self, but maintains a low key appearance, so none would be all the wiser except for ones she allows close.
