I was so worried last night when my hubby said he wanted to talk... out of fear that he was going to say he was leaving. To me he seems uncertain at this point. I am not actually sure why he is sticking around. A few weeks ago he was so close to leaving, and now it seems he is second guessing that. So I guess we are just going to "keep on keeping on".
I love my husband but is there a point where the LBS just thinks, why would I want to stay with someone that is treating me this way, willing to break up the family without even trying to work on things. I am doing the 180's, GAL, keeping busy, etc. but keep coming back to that train of thought, unfortunately. I think it is crazy for him to consider leaving me, when we have 3 children in kindergarten.
M: 8 yrs T:14 Twins:7 S:5 BD:'NLILWY': Feb/2013 Mar/Apr/May: MC June: "living in limbo" Sept 12: H moves out Oct 20: reconciling Jan-Feb 2014:MC Feb 2014: separating, and H moved out.