Sailing, sounds like you're doing well and taking the right approach with things. You did well in putting your foot down when W had her strange "freak out" session regarding the rock climbing encounter. C would definitely help her, but I don't think she's to the point of being ready for it. If you suggest it you might suggest IC rather than MC, after some IC she may be ready for MC. WAS's tend to think they can "fix" everything themselves, or that if they can't fix it themselves then it can't be fixed. They don't realize how helpful good MC can be.