Willbwell,

Thanks for checking in. It is all so awkward because you feel like you're making headway and then you're not. When my wife thinks about it all, it really messes her up. When we just try to live life, she's an all-star. I've been trying to move into the direction of just living life, but she'll have a bad morning and she's trying to climb out of it.

It can be so confusing, but I try to ground myself back into what got me out of the rut which was being positive and the best dad/husband I can be. It was easier to get out of the rut before she talked about reconciling because the emotions are tugging in all directions.

Breathe in with the good and out with the bad.....

Trying


Me 42, Wife 39; Married 16; Together 17; Kids: D13, S10
Wife asks for Divorce: 03/19/13
Reconcile: 07/07/13
Round 2 Starts: 02/19/17
Apartment Life: 04/21/17
PA Confirmed: 05/23/17