Grizz, I completely agree with AS. Looking back on things in my situation I realize I was plan B. I know that now after W and I are working reconciliation. Had she not found out what a piece of garbage OM was we wouldn't be working on things. We got to this point becuase I had gotten better at detaching, not completely, but better. I had also got to the point were I knew life was going to be ok with or without my W. w and I talk about how timing was everything with we're we are now and both think we needed this to come out stronger on the other side. I think it's extremely important that you GAL and keep some distance. I am praying that things keep going well for you and that your W wants to work to keep your family together
M 37 W 30 S 7 Together 10 years Married 9 years BD: 12/12/12(W filed same day) I moved to apartment 1/11/13 W and S moved to MIL 1/11/13 Peicing: 6/3/13 Reconciled: 7/2013 BD2: 4/20/16 still working on it
