Mr Bond....I understand and it comes down to one thing...money. Since being discharged from the service, I havent been able to find a full time job. My VA claim is sitting on someones desk, where it will most likely sit another 6 months to a year (if not longer).

My W switched roles with me and became the primary bread winner. She worked her way up to a good position and salary in the company she works for. I also helped put her through school, and took over many of the family responsibilities so she could focus on college.

As such...I am sitting in a bad position financially. I cant go after her for alimony, because even with her current salary, she could barely afford the house on her own....and selling it in the market we are in right now is a colossal loser for the both of us.

I feel trapped.


Me-45,W-36
M-12 yrs, T-15 years
SS- 16
Nov 2003 Initial B date, 2-3 others since
EA/PA OM 2003-2004
Reconciled 2004
May 2013 Final BD, W completely detaches
W files D June 2013
I am moving out 26 July 2013