1. I deleted my Facebook page. One reason was because she was still getting on my page thru mutual friends. And 2 I was out on a few dates and people got clingy and posting pics and tagging me. Figured I had enough drama in my life. Should I reactivate and just go about my life "as if"
2. She could be dodging the whole D talk because she can't take care of the added bills she will be responsible for once everything is signed. Or she's getting cold feet. Regardless I don't want her back just for financial stability. In the emails and message I've sent over the past few weeks she will not talk about the D. We can sign off on 7/8/13. Do I push her to have this conversation?
I would still like to work things out but it seems lost with her having OM. A friend said she won't figure it out until she hits rock bottom, which won't happen until the D is done and feels the extra bills and knows I'm gone.
Me:34 W:26 Together:5yrs M:6/4/11 1st bomb 11/11 2nd bomb 1/21/13 W files for D 3/18/13 She's living with her mom S:13 Previous marriage S:11 Previous marriage She has OM Previous FWB