She has continued to show signs that she wants to work on us but has never really said that.
Grizz, this isn't going to be easy for you to hear, but I think it's really important for you to detach from your W and double down on your GAL efforts. Right now your W is confused and she's trying to have it both ways- establish her new life plus keep you on the hook in case her new life doesn't work out. You are plan B. Plan B is a crappy place to be. Don't make yourself totally available to her. Be scarce. Be mysterious. Let her wonder what you're up to. It may seem like she's on the verge of an epiphany, but she's not. She's just going through the normal second-guessing that WAS's go through when they leave. Don't get your hopes up, remember that you're still in a marathon.
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She bought me tickets to a baseball game for Father's Day which I love.
Great baby steps! Just remember, celebrate baby steps internally but continue with your DB'ing externally.
