I want to say that you are now, and always have been the most beautiful woman I know. You are a wonderful, loving Mother and terrific friend. Without a doubt, you have the most caring heart of anyone that I know. There are no others like you,(wife). With all of my heart, I hope you find yourself enjoying this day.
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!! Don't send this! It was just YESTERDAY that you asked her out on a date and got it thrown back in your face, and you had a moment of clarity:
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and away I went....choked up...was full of expectations and it bit me on the hiney. I tried to act as if, but I am sure there was visable hurt in my face. I haven't put an offer out there in a while and I start by doing a spur of the moment date offer? I don't even know what I expected.
And now you're going to follow that up with a love letter? Can you honestly say that you can send that with zero expectations? I don't think you can, and I promise you, you are going to be very disappointed in her response (if there even is one). What happened to your game plan from yesterday? This one:
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Regardless, We have been growing farther and farther apart. Wife is dating. She is starting a new life that I probably wouldn't fit into now, even if we did reconcile. She isn't coming back and it is time for me to really get that through my thick skull. I think maybe it is time for me to go as dark as possible. It's just too much on me, and I can't detach or hold no expectations when I engage her.
I think you were completely right. You need to go as dark as possible, for YOU. So, ask yourself, if you were dark then how would you change your above message to her?
