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I want to begin to work on bringing our marriage back to a healthy state. I've come to understand we both didn't have the greatest role models when it comes to resolving problems and conflict. I do know we both have to start communicating and not sitting in silence with unresolved problems.

To me working on a marriage is more then having s ex again, brushing unresolved issues under the rug, and waiting for me to make a mistake, or to fail a test.

WIFE I want to Let's try something new. A conversation with each other where we both calmly speak and we both truly listen to each other. How can we start getting there?


Just a couple edits off the top of my head, how I might say it, but your mileage may vary...the vets can give better input.

Her indirectly asking for more time was pretty much: "we don't have to decide anything right now or this summer" sorta thing.

In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus

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