I would appreciate feedback good or bad. I just feel it is time to have a conversation. Not necessarily R talk but we need to speak. I might send her email from home when kids goto bed and tell her I'll be back down to discuss if she wants. The lack of communication around the house is not healthy for the kids. At the end of the day there is no way that 2 months should have passed on such a minor issue. It is obvious that there is more deep down hurt to be resolved.