Husband has one foot out the door!

[chasingpavements]

Agreed to stay in Limbo??

So lastnight my husband finally initiated "the talk", this is how it played out..

H: I think it's time to start that talk from earlier.
M: Mmm Hmmm? (looking at him to continue)
Silence.
Still nothing.
M: We don't have to talk right now.
H: I think we should.
M: Ok.
More silence.
M: I know you still don't know what to do.
H: Uh huh
H: Why did you come down and say you wanted to separate?
M: I don't know. I thought you needed space and time. I didn't mean it.
H: (with weird look on his face) :ohh
H: I wish I had the answer to what to do.
M: I know.
M: We don't have to decide anything.
H: ok...
H: How are you doing?
M: Fine. I am just focusing on the kids and doing things for myself.
H: That's good. (looks genuine)
M: How are you doing?
H: Not horrible, not great.
M: laughing, "so mediocre"
H: laughing, "yes".
H: How have your walks been going? Are you thinking about things?
M: No, not really. Just getting some 'me' time.
H: Have you called your old work back yet? (to see about going back)
M: No, I just want to make sure what I do makes the most financial sense at the time.
H: That is awefully vague.
M: I know.
H: That is a broad statement.
M: I don't know if I should be speaking to a lawyer. I don't know if I will be living here and if the children will be going to the same school. Do you know what I mean.
H: Yes.

Then we go on to talk about a few details if we were to separate.

M: We can cross that bridge if we come to it.

[end of conversation]


Looks like we are not deciding anything and just keep going as we are?? Oh boy....

Looks like I still have some time to keep up the DB'ing.