i know - right. i keep coming up with the same darn thing- perhaps mlc? it is all so crazy- and so many of the nuttie things fit with what everyone describes... mlc

MY ONLY SNAGGLE IS i know me- i am hopelessly romantic and want to see the good - have hope.

it's a blessing and a flaw (i think). HONESTLY- I THINK in the end - if i'm really really honest with me and you - it's all a crap shoot in this messy mlc junk and if we're lucky- things will work out - and if we're not- they won't.

i'd like to believe we had control in life (of much of anyting) and we don't. not with other people. like my theories of buying a lottery ticket-

if there's a GOD and he wants you to win- it does not matter what ticket you buy- the numbers might change- you will win.

that is that. i'm coming to accept the uncontrollability of life- in so many ways - is it good? maybe... idk- i'm lots better at the one day at a time thing (sad lesson - another one).

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Wouldn't the right thing for them to do be to come to their spouse and say "look I have fallen in love with someone else, I'm leaving"?


you're repeating my "matra" here. my contention and major beef. more evidence of their "confusion & insanity" or lack of integrity??????

you sound a bit like me- either blessed or shackled with - HOPE. EVEN Atiny grain. someone said it in your thread- hope- it's ALWAYS THERE - no matter how small. a little candle lite in a giant swirling tornado-

so whattya think punk - do you feel lucky?????

hope your day is okay- h returns in a few hrs, feeling a bit edgy - oh well-

xxoo hang on- you're helpin me hang on a bit longer too- one more day okay!