I'm glad the weekend went well. I think your wife is baking up nicely and you've given her ample time and space to work on her issues. Painting the kitchen can be a chore, but it sounds like the two of you knocked it out w/o a hitch.

T2, you are doing very well. Keep up the good work. BTW, yes, it's time to ask if she will moisturize your back. I think she'll do it for you.

Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.