Wow, that's a long time to live together post-IDLY -- I thought five months was hard, though I didn't see it as hard until I moved out and didn't have her actions as a single woman in my face all the time. Your patience and detachment are an inspiration, adinva.
Me: 24 W: 24 T: 9 M: 6 S7, D4, S2 PA Starts, ILYBINILWY: Nov 2012 BD & PA Discovered: Jan 2013 First ML since BD: April 2013 Physical separation: Mid-May 2013