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Jeack #2359036 06/18/13 12:46 AM
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I originally just sent the message to break the ice, in hopes of getting her to move forward with the paperwork and stop stalling. And she has still yet to answer any of my questions regarding the D or anything.


Me:34
W:26
Together:5yrs
M:6/4/11
1st bomb 11/11
2nd bomb 1/21/13
W files for D 3/18/13
She's living with her mom
S:13 Previous marriage
S:11 Previous marriage
She has OM Previous FWB
Jeack #2359045 06/18/13 01:14 AM
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So your original intention didn't go through either. It's too late to do anything about it now. But from here on out you can't be too accommodating.


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Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

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MrBond #2359055 06/18/13 01:42 AM
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Touche'. Nope, all it did was confuse me now. by design? who knows.

Do I bring up the D with her. Let things settle for a few days?? Because now i'm feeling a little bit played for a sucker.


Me:34
W:26
Together:5yrs
M:6/4/11
1st bomb 11/11
2nd bomb 1/21/13
W files for D 3/18/13
She's living with her mom
S:13 Previous marriage
S:11 Previous marriage
She has OM Previous FWB
Jeack #2359061 06/18/13 02:13 AM
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She's still seeing the OM?


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2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER
MrBond #2359067 06/18/13 02:37 AM
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Yes she is! She still hasn't admitted it but the OM is always posting on FB with her.


Me:34
W:26
Together:5yrs
M:6/4/11
1st bomb 11/11
2nd bomb 1/21/13
W files for D 3/18/13
She's living with her mom
S:13 Previous marriage
S:11 Previous marriage
She has OM Previous FWB
Jeack #2359072 06/18/13 02:40 AM
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Well sorry to say that your W has chosen to go out with an idiot if he's posting for all the world to see. It shouldn't be that hard to outdo him.


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Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER
MrBond #2359076 06/18/13 02:44 AM
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Well I was trying to make peace with her after sending a personal pornagraphic sexual encounter of ours on our anniversary. Wasn't one of my proudest moments. was kind of a low blow


Me:34
W:26
Together:5yrs
M:6/4/11
1st bomb 11/11
2nd bomb 1/21/13
W files for D 3/18/13
She's living with her mom
S:13 Previous marriage
S:11 Previous marriage
She has OM Previous FWB
MrBond #2359122 06/18/13 10:51 AM
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Originally Posted By: MrBond
Well sorry to say that your W has chosen to go out with an idiot if he's posting for all the world to see. It shouldn't be that hard to outdo him.


So is that why she is probably stalling? realizing she's with a loser. I mean this guys posts on FB referring to her as his "Jawnie" has a profile picture of them wearing these big rubber noses?? apparently it's a big nose club. I honestly feel bad for her.

On a side note her brother called about 2 weeks ago to see how I was. He drives cross country and wants to get together for some wings and a few beers. I agreed to, I just planned on not talking about his sister/my W really at all and acting as if. I think im reading into the sitch a lil to much. I just had my head set on the D and now second guessing. Guess I was in WAS mdd.


Me:34
W:26
Together:5yrs
M:6/4/11
1st bomb 11/11
2nd bomb 1/21/13
W files for D 3/18/13
She's living with her mom
S:13 Previous marriage
S:11 Previous marriage
She has OM Previous FWB
Jeack #2359149 06/18/13 12:34 PM
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She just texted me a few minutes ago that the video I sent was funny and the dog needs a haircut. Don't even know how to respond??


Me:34
W:26
Together:5yrs
M:6/4/11
1st bomb 11/11
2nd bomb 1/21/13
W files for D 3/18/13
She's living with her mom
S:13 Previous marriage
S:11 Previous marriage
She has OM Previous FWB
Jeack #2359202 06/18/13 03:37 PM
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I just responded as a friend would. Just not sure if I should be asking her how she's doing or anything. I've just been responding when she texts me, but not initiating conversation. Thoughts?


Me:34
W:26
Together:5yrs
M:6/4/11
1st bomb 11/11
2nd bomb 1/21/13
W files for D 3/18/13
She's living with her mom
S:13 Previous marriage
S:11 Previous marriage
She has OM Previous FWB
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