Only time for a quick post. Just read the last few ones and I like what GALb said, as always. As you know, as H & I were moving toward D in December, I also went out to eat with him a couple of times and some other selected activities altho I had stopped ML by this time. I was always trying to follow HIS lead and also turned down some requests.
It's really a tricky connection phase you are in & you hafta do what works. Connecting with eye contact about the song and h smiling in the family photo are really good.
Keep up the good work and thanks tons for your posts on my thread. I thought the magnet idea was so clever and thoughtful!
Hugs, rH
Me54/H47 '08 H is "done" March '12 H moved out Brink of D, December '12 2014 totally reconciled! ...... "I firmly believe in the...absolute possibility of marriage renewal." Jim Conway