Amy, Thanks! I am at the point that I realize the M and R are over (at least for now). I actually know my W pretty well, and I doubt DBing will help my sitch in anyway, no matter how hard I try, or 180s I do. She just does this...I saw it with her 1st XH, and her father later.
Once the D is final in 90 days, I will be asked to move out, and that will be that. Not saying I wont keep 180ing and trying...but my expectations of this M/R surviving is near nil.
I'll be ok...because I know now that DB is as much or more for me, than it is for the M/R.
Me-45,W-36 M-12 yrs, T-15 years SS- 16 Nov 2003 Initial B date, 2-3 others since EA/PA OM 2003-2004 Reconciled 2004 May 2013 Final BD, W completely detaches W files D June 2013 I am moving out 26 July 2013
