Well in your message you pretty much accepted blame for everything bad in your M and that you'll be there for her no matter what (even if she has OM). There's no reason why she'd be mad at you. Sorry but it sounds like you gave her an open invitation to walk all over you.
Just IMHO.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.