Well I went with my gut instinct. I sent the email to her unedited just as I wrote it. I was extremely surprised to hear back from her. here's our text conversation.

W:? Why are you being nice

M: Tired of Fighting

W:....I don't know whether to believe this or not

M: Well everything I wrote is truly how I feel. Don't know what else to say but that.

W: How are you doing?

M:Hanging in there. You?

W: Heard you were seeing someone?

M: Went out with a few people. But not really ready for that quite yet. lol

W: Still living without a roommate?

M: Yeah

W: Well that's good. I've been wondering how you're doing...

M: I'm doing alot better it was rough but I got thru it, I'm in a good place. Trying to find myself

M: Thinking about getting a dog.

W: You can have Pess? She's been a terror. (This her dog that she absolutely loves)

M: I'll take her if your serious (which I doubt lol) I miss that lil Sh!T

W: I'm actually half serious. I don't know if I could actually do it because I'd be heart broken but moms constantly bitching about her peeing in the house and she never gets to run outside any more. 😔 I'd be so sad but if you're serious I'd consider it for her.

M: Well the offer is there

W: Would I get visitation rights?

M: As long as you pay me doggie support. Lol. Jk. Yeah I'm sure we could work something out.

M: I would never not let you see her.

W: idk...I'd be worried that one of your girlfriends would be mean to her and I have to kick some a$$. (funny I have no girlfriends at all)

M: Like I said before that's not really high on my priority list. Working on myself. I'd rather have a dog than a GF🐶

W: Wrong answer! You should have said: I wouldn't let anyone EVER be mean to her! 😐

M:I think you already know that's true! But for the record I'd never let ANYONE man or woman be mean to her.

Then I sent a video of the dog playing in my house when we were together. and haven't heard anything else from her.

Now i'm thoroughly confused. By her questions. Looking for advice on what all this means. I do miss her. Just really confused now


Me:34
W:26
Together:5yrs
M:6/4/11
1st bomb 11/11
2nd bomb 1/21/13
W files for D 3/18/13
She's living with her mom
S:13 Previous marriage
S:11 Previous marriage
She has OM Previous FWB