OK….I’m looking for a little more insight into the past few weeks.
I’m thinking that I’m on a good start…and I really don’t want to over think it or jinx anything by not reading the situation as it should be….
During my time spent yesterday with my exW, she was happy go lucky, seemed relaxed, was funny and even flirtatious at times….I wasn’t sure how to react to some of her sexual innuendos or overtly open comments about some of our past experiences with each other….we both managed to poke and play with the other at time…breaking personal space often….and
We did manage to drink quite a bit together and I liked that she was or seemed very at ease (almost as normal as when we were together). On a few of the par 3’s we placed some silly wagers taunting and teasing with each other as we often did….and I even made a long birdie put toward the end of the day and teased her that she owed me big time for that one….and she laughingly said something naughty, but shrugged it off….any way on the very next tee I came up really close and asked her how she felt about “beer kisses” (knowing full well she always loved them)….anyway she pulled back a little and said no, she couldn’t do that one, and that it would be inappropriate…..and when I asked her why it was inappropriate, she explained it like it would be inappropriate of her, but not that it wasn’t inappropriate of me to have asked.
At the end of the evening which was close to dark….(again, spending the entire day together unexpectedly)….I gave her several small hugs and a few peck on the cheek….she didn’t refuse, but she wouldn’t kiss me back…until I made a few jokes and teased her enough to give me just one….and she did.
I’m probably searching and diggin a little too deep on this whole out of town relationship she has…but it seems to me that in the past few weeks she has really changed her whole stance on doing things together as friends….and I’m for certain that he BF would not be entirely comfortable with the fact that we have been hanging out.

So…I’m open to any input on this…..LOL


M 52
W 40
D 15 (step)
S 12 (step)
Married 7, together almost 8
Separated 1 year before bomb from her "I love you, I'm just..."
BD final 8/22/12