I estimate the A to have started as an EA sometime in the fall of 2011, then turned PA early in 2012.
Oh, I wasn't including any EA time, I wonder if there was any EA or it was just an easy, available lust outlet......but I do know she started her online "playing" in Aug 2011, and he was in her IM contacts that popped up with a x-rated message when s3 and I were on his computer in Nov...so somewhere in there?? Not that is really matters in the big picture, just my detective/details side running amok now...
Guess I am somewhere close to your time frame then...but at least I wasn't "sure" (though had suspicions that something was up somewhere) until Feb this year, so I wasn't tested nearly as long as you...man, you are strong!!
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
