I agree with Bond. A date is not the night to discuss these things.

Plus, you need to take time and really be mindful of what you want. H and I hung out for a few weeks before we had the "can I move back in" talk. No rush.

M: 9 yrs
T: 13 yrs
H:34 Me:35, S4, D2, S 7 months
Dday 11/12-PA & multiple PAs
Dbing 12/12
S 1/13
7/13 H moved back in basement.
8/13 #3 born
10/13 still cheating
10/13 He moves across country, I file for D