Okay, so need some advice again. I appreciate all the support/advice I've been given so far. I'm hoping another vet or two will follow my sitch with some much needed advice.
How do I balance being there for my W now that she seems set on filing(her main issue is that I didn't support her emotions and needs), while letting her figure it out on her own. I admit that when I pull away, I get sucked back in to some degree. A little less each time. It seems space, along with being there for her at times makes the most progress (Shocker, I know. Its not like anyone gives that advice around here ).
Do I continue on that path, or should I be letting her handle more/all things on her own? She gets really let down when I tell her she needs to handle something hard. Then I get torn between it being an opportunity to show I can be there (which I want to be so instinct tells me to do so), or letting her struggle on her own journey.
M:34 W:36 M:10 T:15 D:9 S:5 BD:12/12 Worked on the M for 6 mo before W saying it was over 5/13.
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