Sailing, May I ask how long youve been dealing with your situation?
not sure how you really set dates to stuff like this. I would say my wife really started her MLC about 18 months ago, the ILYB was in Dec 2012.
Originally Posted By: Thumpered
Patience doesnt seem to even begin to cover this for a definition, seems like a whole new word needs to be invented for it. Have you seen/read many success stories with this? Or prefer to not even go there.
Is she worth waiting for? Sure, but even my kids are beginning to deal with this in adverse ways. Any tips for the older kids?
Thx again for you input, its so valuable to me right now.
Not sure about advice for older children who will be more award of changes. My kids are young and have not said anything. Do they notice? yes they do. They notice they get much less mommy time.
One thing I read here or maybe in the DB book was not to manage my W's relationship with the kids. If she let's them down, then I'm not going to cover for her. With older kids this might make more sense.
