round and around we go

[Tallula]

I would definately go very slow are far as him moving back in. The ILU was great! But, remember to still hold back, let his continued actions show if he is ready to commit. My H did the same thing in Jan, but then kept OW as a FB friend. Needless to say, I asked him to leave until he could truly cut off contact. That was me, though.

Still let him pursue. Think and discuss with IC about what would you need for him to do to rebuild trust. Biggest thing is SLOW!!!