Its tough; getting tougher

[amy1982]

This morn my H & I talked. He says the reason he doesn't go 2 church is because of me..how he deals w/ my affair & texts I sent 6 mo ago when I was upset. He says he loves me as a mom of our children, Im a good housewife etc but he cant get back that in love feeling & his way of coping is staying away from the one who caused so much pain. He said that even in Hollywood an affair is pretty much a deal breaker & theres usually not reconciliation. In looking over my H life I see this is his normal response - if someone hurts me I stay away from them , move on & don't look back. I need encouragement.