Good morning. Feeling a little relief from my anger and anxiety. I have tried to promise myself that I will wait 24 hours before reacting to anything as long as it wasn't eminent.

So, with H showing his true colors I am finding that this is helping me move forward in my life. I shared with a few friends this morning my frustration, and they reminded me that it will be inevitable that this and these types of things will happen. I really have to try to keep that in my mind.

Re-read 37 rules - Always seems to help a little.

So, one more "eye opener" to put things in perspective.

Why do we all learn the most during the most difficult times of our lives? I am starting to really notice how much Divorce Busting is for the LBS and not really to save the marriage. I am getting so beside myself with the things I hear and see, I could only imagine if there were this "drama" that I added.

Glad I am taking the high road although H is really trying my patience and making it extremely difficult. I can't wait to look back on this one day and have it all behind me.


BombOctober 2012-
OW 11/28/12 -H still denies
Separated 11/29/12
Own place 12/12/12
Confessed OW/EA/PA 2/2/13
Oct 2013 - I knew I was done
Jan 2014 - Anticipating the rest of my life