Oh yeah in the hotel Saturday night I mentioned to the one couple and one mom that H had moved out in December. They had no idea. The one mom is one of S15's best friends' mom, her kid sleeps over at my house about once or twice a week or they're together at someone else's house.
She then told me her son had mentioned to her that S15's dad didn't always come home. That he stayed out late and came home drunk and yelling, so she had thought at the time that maybe her son shouldn't spend as much time at my house. I thought that was interesting! I knew the boys knew about and talked about H going out so much and staying so late or all night. That was the main reason I finally asked him to just move out already, it was very confusing to not know your parents are separated and have your dad acting like a single guy with no family. But he doesn't drink alcohol, so he definitely didn't come home drunk. Yelling yes, drunk no. Funny how people think something of you but never mention it until much later.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.
