There are baby steps along the way... I spent Father's Day on the golf course with my ex wife yesterday. Lots of fun, lots of laughs, and even a few flirts here and ther. Taking things as they come....and letting her dictate the pace. Now is not the time to rush into a discussion about my feelings, about my changes, and definitely not the time to bring up my desires for reconciliation. The only bad thing is that I'm baby stepping when I want to run....but then again, baby stepping is always better than standing still 😄
M 52 W 40 D 15 (step) S 12 (step) Married 7, together almost 8 Separated 1 year before bomb from her "I love you, I'm just..." BD final 8/22/12