There are baby steps along the way...
I spent Father's Day on the golf course with my ex wife yesterday.
Lots of fun, lots of laughs, and even a few flirts here and ther.
Taking things as they come....and letting her dictate the pace.
Now is not the time to rush into a discussion about my feelings, about my changes, and definitely not the time to bring up my desires for reconciliation.
The only bad thing is that I'm baby stepping when I want to run....but then again, baby stepping is always better than standing still 😄


M 52
W 40
D 15 (step)
S 12 (step)
Married 7, together almost 8
Separated 1 year before bomb from her "I love you, I'm just..."
BD final 8/22/12