Who knows what their rationalization is Linda - hard to say, since their logic is so skewed.

So why does he keep putting himself through the messed up cycle he's created? Only he knows the answer to that. But I would think that eventually something's gotta give - it ends up just not being worth it anymore for one or both of them.

Bea, I find my H interesting because I absolutely believe that he knows what he is doing is wrong. Even after all this time, he continues to try to hide his behavior from family and friends. Unlike other MLCers who flaunt their affairs and bad behavior, I see my H as having a more secretly entitled attitude. He damn well knows its wrong, but does it anyway.

And yes, it is adultery. Absolutely.

I was given advice long ago by the vets here to let the A die its natural death. That is what I am trying to do. Let it all go to sh!t, without any influence from me.

The thing is, who knows how I will feel when this is all said and done? I may very well be the one to think this isn't worth it, that I can do so much better.

Guess only time will tell on that one.

Bomb January 2012 - doesn't feel the same about me

~ "There is nothing love cannot face; there is no limit to its faith, hope, and endurance."